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How does one succeed in life?

09.06.2025 01:57

How does one succeed in life?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What are the best self-care practices to improve mental health?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What is the most heartbreaking or sad love story that you ever had (experienced)?

Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).